Why the sex you don’t want could be good for you.
March 25, 2008

Many couples won’t have sex when they’re feeling exhausted, unhappy, angry or distant,. Love often arises out of sex. The chances of having highly erotic or romantic sex increases when we’re prepared at other times, to have less than perfect sex: half-hearted sex, tired sex, dutiful sex, silly sex, tension-releasing sex, sad sex, angry sex, and so on.
Candlelight, a glass of wine, a raunchy film…some, or all, of these might work to get you in the mood for sex. But that’s probably only when you’re already feeling amenable to the idea of making love. What are the chances of having sex if you’re bored, or tired, or angry with your partner?
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